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Welcome to the Queen’s Court

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I am Queen Melody

San Diego Dominatrix, African Goddess, and architect of control. My dominance is calm, sensory, and exacting. I don’t need to shout. I don’t rely on theatrics. My authority is embedded in how I move, how I speak, and how you respond when I do nothing at all.

I create immersive, focused experiences that draw you under and hold you there. I don’t play. I design. Slowly, deliberately, beautifully. And when it’s over, you won’t be the same

I’m a reader. A ritualist. A Black woman who understands how power moves through both bodies and systems. I build containers for transformation, not escape. I value clarity, attention, and deep consent. This work is not entertainment. It’s discipline. It’s study. It’s worship, if you’re lucky.

How I Play

My primary tools are bondage and electro. I love bondage for the stillness, electro for the reaction. I work with cuffs, hoods, wrap, vac beds, sacks, and cages. I use TENS units, violet wands, and shock collars to push your nervous system where it doesn’t want to go.

But I’m not limited to tools. I also work with foot and armpit worship, CBT, mummification, objectification, edging, tease and denial, verbal degradation, and more. I don’t chase shock. I don’t shame kinks. I use what works and stretch it.

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Who I See

You don’t need to be experienced. You need to be honest.
I work well with curious first-timers, high-functioning professionals ready to let go, and masochists who want intensity without chaos. My best clients crave structure, depth, and truth. They want something they can’t script or fake.

If You’re Ready

This court doesn’t beg for subjects. If you’ve read this far, that’s your first act of submission. Sit with it. Then decide what you’re offering and whether it’s enough.

If it is, approach.

Favorite Kinks

Sampling of my favorite pastimes, and yours

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All Kink Offerings

What I can do to you.

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